Hair cut

I'm thinking about cutting my hair, any suggestions. I've had the same style of hair for like 5 years now. But maybe it's working for me.... than again, I'm still single so maybe it's not.

My fears about cutting it short is that I'll look like a 14 year. and If i cut it real short I'll look like a lesbian, and I defiantly do not need that look here.

and my hair is already pretty long.... sooo.... what?

any ideas, suggestions?